Justmeet - Nature Walk (For Single Christain)

http://www.justmeet.com.sg/

register@justmeet.com.sg

Usher in the New Year

Dear Brothers and Sisters, Do you want to be the First to usher in the New Year at the First Reservoir in the City? Are you Game for lots of Fun and Excitement? Register Now to Avoid Disappointment!

A Fun-Filled Carnival awaits you. We will enjoy Free Stage Performances and Water Activities at the First Reservoir in the City.

Catch a Stunning and Spectacular View of the FIREWORKS Display against the city skyline from the City Reservoir. Come and Experience it! You will be Amazed!

Program Highlights:

¡¤ 12:00pm - Carnival
¡¤ 12:00pm ¨C 5:30pm ¨C Kayaking and Canoeing
¡¤ 3:00pm ¨C 12:00am - Enjoy the Stage Performances
¡¤ 11:55pm ¨C 2am ¨C Countdown Party and FIREWORKS Display

Note: If you can¡¯t join the Full Program, you may want to consider joining
Part of the Program.


Date: 31 Dec 2008
Meeting Time: 11:00amVenue: Marina Bay MRT Station Control Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address, Gender, Current Church Attending and Contact Number to:
Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com)
*God creates an opportunity for us to meet. Let us treasure this opportunity to know each other further.

Note: NO CopyRight of Script.
Awaiting for your Favourable Reply.Have A Blessed Week Ahead. God Bless,Louis

WINGS Jan 2009 Program Highlights (For ladies )

On 10 & 11 Jan 2009, WINGS ( http://www.wings.sg/en/ ) will be participating in 50+ Singapore Expo held at the Suntec City Convention centre. The event is a national initiative to reach out to the 50+ community and to raise community interest in lifestyle choices. It is jointly organized by Council for Third Age (C3A) and supported by MCYS. We are pleased to inform that our ladies from the Taichi and Belly dance classes will be showcasing their talents at the 2-day event. Do drop by and give your support to our lovely ladies!

In the New Year, there are a number of new and interesting programs lined up for you. If you bring along a female friend or family member to our talks, she will be entitled immediately to member’s rates when she signs up for membership. Do take the opportunity to purchase a unique WINGS tee-shirt at a special price of $8-00 only.

Health & Exercise
1. Yoga on the Mat *New class*
Ms Adrienne Low, Yoga teacher commencing 8 Jan at 10 am
Health & Wellness
1. Keys to Good Health series: Digestion & Absorption
Ms Yondi Lee, Holistic Nutritionist - 5 Jan at 2 pm
2. Boosting your Memory & IQ: Going beyond your years
Ms Sheeba Majmudar, Nutritionist - 9 Jan at 2 pm
3. Care Series: Foot Care
Ms Tay Lee Huang, Diabetic Nurse educator - 15 Jan at 2 pm
Happiness & Love
1. How older person can say “No” (Mandarin)
Ms Xiao Rong, Senior Talkshop graduate - 6 Jan at 2 pm
2. Building bridges: Re-connecting with Teenagers
Dr Amy Daniel, MCYS Family Life Ambassador - 7 Jan at 2 pm
3. Setting Goals (Mandarin)
Ms Tan Soo Yuin, Counselor - 8 Jan at 3.30pm
Financial Education
1. Managing Healthcare Cost (Mandarin)
Loy Jin Juay, Executive Life Planner (GE) - 14 Jan at 3pm
Recreational Group & Skills Upgrading
1. Love Yourself series: Beautify yourself with colours with Ms Gloria Tam, Image consultant - 13 Jan at 2 pm
2. Public Speaking - Think on your Feet & Speak with Confidence with Ms Quek Geok Cheng, Education & Training consultant - 14 Jan at 2 pm & 7 pm
3. Book Chat with Ms May Tan - 20 Jan at 12 noon
Counseling
Please call WINGS at Tel: 6250-1012 to make an appointment for:
Legal, Financial, Menopause and Emotional Counseling

Saving and Surviving the Recession (For females) 12 Jan 2009

Saving and Surviving the Recession (For members)
Date: 12 January 2009
Time: 7:00pm
Venue: AWARE Centre (Blk 5 Dover Crescent #01-22 Singapore 130005) Buses: No 14, 74, 166

“Saving and Surviving the Recession” is the second in AWARE’s series of talks especially for members. Mr. Leong Sze Hian, President of the Society of Financial Service Professionals will be providing all attendees with more information and answering your questions about the economic crisis.

For more information, call us at 6779 7137 or email aware@aware.org.sg
http://www.aware.org.sg/

The Family Link Program/ Illness Management and Recovery (IMR) Program (starting Jan 2009)

The Family Link Program is a 8-sessions workshop run by SAMH or caregivers/volunteers of persons suffering from any one of the 3 kinds of mental illnesses; depression, bipolar disorder (manic depression) or Schizophrenia. SAMH runs Family Link Program classes in both English and Mandarin on a quarterly basis. Those who are interested to know more on the illnesses may sign up too. http://www.samhealth.org.sg/services.php?s=3

Help for Depression/Stress http://www.depnet.com.sg/ (Illness Management and Recovery (IMR) Program (Workshop starting 12 Jan 2009) For exact dates: http://www.samhealth.org.sg/services.php?s=6

Topics for the Family Link Program (Workshop starting 8 Jan 2009)
Understanding Schizophrenia, Mania & Depression
Practical Drug Guide & Management
Effective Communication with persons with mental illness
Handling Crisis & Suicide Prevention
Treating Yourself Good
Understanding & Accessing Mental Health Services
Dealing with Stigma & Discrimination
Moving Forward
2009 Programme Details: (1st come 1st serve basis)

Date : 18th Run: 8, 15 January, 5, 12, 19 Feb, 5, 12, 19 March (Thursdays) in English
19th Run: 16, 23 April 7, 14, 21 May, 4, 11, 18 June (Thursdays) in Mandarin
Time : 7.00pm to 9.00pm (Light refreshment provided during tea break)
Venue : Toa Payoh Central Community Club No 93 Toa Payoh Central Seminar Room @ #05-05 Fee : By donation only

For further enquiry, please call 1800 2837019 (Monday to Friday, 9.00am-1.00pm, 2.00-6.00pm) or email to supportsvcs@samhealth.org.sg

Confinement Nanny Training Jan 2009 (For females, minimum 40 years old)

Women@WINGS will be launching the Confinement Nanny Training. It is an opportunity for ladies to learn a new skill and launch a second career.

Interviews are scheduled in January 09 and the course will be conducted in February 09.

If you are keen to join the training, do contact us. Please also spread the word among your peers.
Thank you.

WINGS
Tel : 62501012
wings@lists.grinningpanda.org
http://www.wings.sg/en/

Dr Date Says: Get Out.

Tue, Dec 16, 2008The New Paper

Do one social activity a week
by David Tian
SOME people are lucky. They marry their childhood sweetheart at age 22 and never have to worry about dating again.
Most people are not so fortunate. And some of them simply never meet new love interests.
Years go by without a date. They spend New Year's Eve alone or with friends, pizza delivery, or a DVD.
If this is you, realise that you might never meet your ideal partner naturally and that you must take immediate action even if you don't feel like it.
Here is a great habit to have in your life: Carry out one social activity a week.
Just do it
Do this no matter what, even if you don't want to.
The following are some suggestions, but I am sure you can think of more.
Attend a singles' party. I know of several in town, including the Little Black Book Party at Mimolette on Thursdays.
Volunteer at a charitable organisation. Take up a new hobby that involves group activities, such as singing in a choir, forming your own band, or acting in a community production.
If you have the means, book a trip to Club Med, hire a dating coach or join a club.
You don't have to be any good at these activities to start. You just have to stick them in your schedule, show up, be sociable and smile.
Maybe you are worried that you have to go alone. That is no excuse to sit at home. Many people I know had to drag themselves to a social activity alone, and those were the nights they met their current partner.
Sometimes, it is better to go alone because you can manage your own time and go with the social flow. Besides, as an adult, you must learn to accept that you cannot always cling to someone for support.
At the start, these social activities may not always be pleasant or comfortable. But many of the most worthwhile things in life are outside one's comfort zone.
Even if you do not meet your ideal mate, just going out - whether it is to a museum, a sports event, or a party - is good for you. You meet new people, broaden your horizons, and practise your social skills.
Tell your friends that you're going to take up at least one social activity this week. And stick with it!
Learn more about dating expert Dr Date at his website: www.powerofbeingasian.com.
This article was first published in The New Paper on Dec 14, 2008.

Karaoke Session - 24 DEC - REGISTRATION FULL

There will be a karaoke session on 24 Dec (Thur) afternoon.

As on 24Dec is Christmas eve, there might be some your company declaring 1/2 day,so come down to join us for this afternoon fun-filled singing session.

The below event is strictly for Singles Christians.

Date : 24 Dec' 08 (Thur)
Program : Karaoke
sessionTime : 2pm -7pm
Group size : 20 people


Actual Location will only disclose to participants who signed up.

After karaoke, we may proceed to dinner somewhere at town area.

Registration closed : 22 Dec

Kindly email your name, contact no and church attending to sallyy0507@hotmail.com

Christian Chill-out Event on 20Dec'08

Hi all,

A chill-out session specially for relaxation and free mingling
to know new friends and reunion with friends we met before.

We will have some light-heated games and also gift
exchange on this joyful occasion near X'mas time.

The below event is strictly for Singles Christians.

Date : 20 Dec'08 ( Sat)
Program : Chill-out session
Time : 7pm - 11pm

Pub/Chill-Out Place: 3 min away from Raffles Place MRT

Actual Location will only disclose to participants who paid up
Cost: $15 includes standard drink of housepour/beer/soft drink
Gift Exchange : $4-$6 gift (preferably chocolates/cookies)

Registration closed : 19 Dec (1800hr)

Gatecrasher fee of $20 for Unregistered and Walk-In participants
Target Size: 50 people

Please transfer of $15 via internet banking or ATM fund transfer :
DBS Savings a/c: 019-8-070180
UOB Uniplus A/C: 371-377-977-4

Avoid ATMs that run out of receipts and retain the transaction receipt

Interested participants,please register and fund transfer early
to avoid disappointment.

Confirmed participants will receive an acknowledgement email

In His Grace,

Wilfred Wong wilfredwong2222@yahoo.com

Bowling session (For Single Christian Only)-Confirmed Event

Bowling sessionate. It's open to all who likes to throw some balls.

Classification: Other types of events
Event Date & Time: 14 Dec 2008 3:45pm
Event Venue: City Hall Area
Meeting Point: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Group Size: 24
Dress Code: Casual

Registration Open Date: 09 Dec 2008
Registration Close Date: 13 Dec 2008
Primary Organiser: Lundy Wong (lundy@themenatwork.com) (Email)

Singapore men put love on hold on financial worry

(16 Oct 2008 16:29)
By Koh Gui Qing

SINGAPORE, Oct 16 (Reuters) - "No money no honey" seems to be ringing true for Singapore's bridal agencies, which are seeing slowing business as the financial crisis and a looming recession hit love in the country.
Matchmaking agencies in the Southeast Asian country said the financial meltdown has forced some men to think twice about spending thousands of dollars to get a wife.
"About 10 percent of my customers say 'The economy is slowing down, I have no money,'" said Mark Lin, who runs the Vietnam Brides International Matchmaker in Singapore.
"In the past, girls used to get married in one to two weeks. Now it takes one to two months," he said, in a tiny office along Singapore's main shopping belt where five Vietnamese women chatted under walls covered with pictures of smiling newly weds.
Three to four customers pull out of their marriages each month now, forfeiting deposits paid to agencies, up from one to two clients before, Lin said.
The crisis, which sparked banking turmoil from the United States to Iceland, has traversed beyond financial markets into the real economy as falling home prices and fears of losing jobs force consumers to tighten their belts.
"Business has been very badly hit by the crisis. In the past, I would get around 20 calls a day. Now there are hardly any calls," said Hannah, who works at Truelove International Matchmaker in Singapore. She declined to give her last name.
"Some say the financial pressures from a marriage are just too great," she said, in a country that was booming last year but is expected to see a recession in the third quarter.
Couples in Singapore typically spend thousands of dollars when they tie the knot as newly weds host family and friends at a lavish dinner to mark the occasion.
Matchmaking is not uncommon in the country, which has a population of 4.8 million and a low birth rate, as older men turn to professionals to find a wife.
Some agencies help link up singles, while others -- like Lin's -- help customers find a prospective wife from abroad.
For S$8,000 ($5,450), a man can pick a wife from among the women in Lin's shop, send her to the doctor, and get his marriage registered -- all in 12 hours, but only if the woman fancies him too.
If he does not fancy the women in the shop, he can pay another S$2,000 to fly to Ho Chi Minh City and meet 50-100 women in a hotel, but Lin warns customers this is illegal.
"My customers are usually over 35. That is when they get disappointed with Singapore women, whom they say have too high expectations," he said.
The women can stay in Singapore for only two months on visitor's passes if they are not married to a local, Lin said.
But as business slows to a crawl amid a sagging economy, some women have to go home without a husband.
"I hope to get married," said 19-year-old Nguyen Thi Hue, who returns to Vietnam on Thursday after two months in Singapore. "I want a husband who can dote on me and love me." (Editing by Neil Chatterjee) ((Guiqing.Koh@Reuters.com; Reuters Messaging; guiqing.koh.reuters.com@reuters.net; +65 6403 5665)) ($1=1.468 Singapore Dollar) Keywords: SINGAPORE BRIDES/

Can Singles play Cupid?

TNP:

THREE singles are among the first batch of matchmakers who have been found to be just right to help you find your Mr or Ms Right.

They are among seven dating agencies and nine dating practitioners to carry the Social Development Unit (SDU) Trust Mark.
These dating agencies are expected to uphold the standards and integrity of the dating service.
Can matchmakers who are single help others find love successfully?
Associate Professor Paulin Straughan, chairperson of the Accreditation Council for the Dating Industry, said: 'I think, actually, they (single matchmakers) can capitalise on their singlehood status. They can put themselves in the position of their clients.
'What is it like to be single and looking for somebody? So, in that way, perhaps they may have a value-add to bring to the business.'
She added that what is more important is 'the training that the person has gone through, the kind of organisation that they work in, that backs up their work.
'Whether they are married or not really doesn't, I think, play an important, a key role, in the kind of quality services they can bring.'
On 23 Oct, The New Paper had reported that the matchmaking website of Who Works Around You was among the first to win SDU accreditation.
Yesterday, the selected agencies and practitioners received their accreditation from Mrs Yu-Foo Yee Shoon, Minister of State for Community Development, Youth and Sports, at the annual Partner Connection Trade Seminar.

singers needed for Celebrate Christmas in Singapore carolling - on 25 dec 08 at Orchard Rd

i brothers and sisters in Christ,wonder if you would like to be involved in carolling at Orchard Rd on 25 Dec 08, 4pm onwards? it is organised by Celebrate Christmas In Singapore (CCIS), and they need many more singers. The rehearsal dates are 7, 14 and 21 Dec from 4pm to 6pm, at a church in Toa Payoh.The email below includes some info, and attached is a very basic program outline. CCIS website is http://www.ccishome.org/07/ If you are keen, pls contact the coordinator, Joan at email: pinkboshi@gmail.com

Place to Rent?

Dear Brothers and Sisters,
I'm looking for a place to rent. Any1 has any lobang ? Vun Huei
vhthai@yahoo.com

Makan session at Lau Pa Sat -- 7pm, 12 Dec (Fri)

Hi All Brothers and Sisters in Christ, You are welcome to join this " best of local food" makan session at Lau Pa Sat on 12 Dec, Friday at 7pm.
This is a casual, free and easy dining. We can either pool money to share food or if you have a special
palate, feel free to get your own food as well. Meeting and Makan Place is at Fat Man Satay stall at 7pm.
( the open air section where all the satay stalls are)

Here's the agenda:
7 pm - 9 pm : Dinner9 pm - till late : Drinks at TCC Boat Quay (optional)
Food and drinks are at your own expense. Please drop an email to Pamela(wucp@hotmail.com ) and Aim (aimlps@singnet.com.sg) to confirm your attendance by 11 Dec. Kindly include your name, email address, handphone number and church. Thanks. Have a blessed day!

Cycling at East Coast for Christian Singles only – Sunday 7 Dec 2008

Join us for a FuN and Entertaining Sunday evening at East Coast Parkway- Cycling cum Dinner cum Chatting. The splashing of the waves, the sweet fragrance of the sea and the Warm fellowship are things you can look out for in this event. Furthermore, you can thoroughly enjoy yourself as the next day is a public holiday. Let us come together and have a great day! Program Highlights:4.30pm- Meeting at EAST COAST PARK MACDONALDS5:00pm – Cycling at East Coast
7.00pm – Dinner at East Coast 9:30pm – Chatting at the Beach under the moonDate: Sunday, 7 Dec 2008Meeting Time: 4:30pm
Venue: EAST COAST PARK MACDONALDS
Please Email your Name, Email Address and Contact Number to:
Joshua (joshuachua78@hotmail.com) Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com)

"Ji Lang Ji Bua, Gum Tsing Buay Sua Christmas party 2008" for Christian singles only

Hi, If you do not have plans on 13 Dec evening, do come and join the fun and private party "Ji Lang Ji Bua, Gum Tsing Buay Sua Christmas party 2008" for Christian singles only. For payment, you will pay $22 for the international cuisine buffet plus miscellaneous cost for the party. There will be some ice breaker games. 1:30pm-4:30pm. No need to bring present. Venue:The venue is near a private apartment function room near Kovan MRT station. To register:- Please email me your first and last name; hp no (for last minute changes update); email address.- You will be advised to pay only after you are confirmed of a place. The event is restricted to 60 pax. - Closing date of registration is 7 Dec 08.Have a blessed Christmas!CheersVal valwong25@yahoo.com.sg

Dinner session @ White Dog Cafe for Single Christains Only

Hi all,Another dinner session,keen?

The below event is strictly for Christians.
*Date : 03 Dec'08(Wed)
*Program : Dinner
*Time : 7.30-10pm
*Restaurant:White Dog Cafe (Vivocity )1 Harbourfront Walk#02-131/132S(098585)Tel: 63769970

*Cost : At Own Expense*Registration closed:3 Dec'08,1500hrs.Interested Participants, please reply me :- Your Name:- Gender:- Contact no.:- Email address:- Christian friends invited (if any):In His Grace,Wilfred Wong wilfredwong2222@yahoo.com

scuba diving on board WhiteManta from 18-24Dec08 (For Single Christian Only)

hi all,If you are interested in joining me for scuba diving on board WhiteManta from 18-24Dec08, please contact me at Email: wykan@hotmail.com.
Its a confirmed trip.During these period, closer to Christmas, there were sightings of Mantas and Whale Sharks at Similans. They are very shy creatures; pray that we can see them.Message me to find out the details.
Only those who are confirm coming or who is very interested need reply.RegardsWayne

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AgapeOikos/

Dinner and Fellowship at Hans Han's Great Eastern Bldg (For Single Christains only)

Regardless you are new to AgapeOikos groups or regulars like me, we invite you to joinus for fellowship.
Date : 27 Nov'08(Thurday)
Program : DinnerTime : 7.15-9.30pm
Restaurant : Han's Great Eastern Bldg
Cost : At Own ExpenseInterested Participants,please reply me : - Your Name: - Gender: - Contact no.: -
Email address: - Christian friends invited (if any):

Wilfred Wong
wilfredwong2222@yahoo.com
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AgapeOikos/

CSMusic Final Songwriters Showcase Of The Year

FULL REGISTRATION FOR SIS, VACANCIES FOR BROS ONLY

Dear all,Look forward to seeing friends here to attend this coming event.If you are keen to go, please provide yourname/email/contact no/gender/Church attending. to eventfsc@hotmail.com:
CSMusic Final Songwriters Showcase Of The YearSongwriters Showcase Dec 08Its Bigger, Better & double the funDate: Thursday, December 4, 2008Time: 7:00pm - 9:00pmLocation: St Andrew's Cathedral, Outdoor AmphitheaterStreet: city Hall Mrt (St Andrew's Road)Be serenaded under the stars at CSMusic's showcase finale of theyear! Bigger and better, this finale showcase will be held at StAndrew's Open Amphitheatre and starring four artistes instead oftwo. Home-based artistes Neli Atiga and Jessica Wa'u as well asAustralian-based Deb Fung and Alarice Thio will be accompanying uswith music through the night. Twice the fun and more than double theblessing - book a date with us and bring your friends!The first 300 to arrive will receive a door gift provided byIntegrity Media Asia. Present the attached flyer at Integrity MediaAsia's booth at the event and get a $5 discount for any purchase aswell!http://csmusic.sg/web2/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=76&Itemid=74Organised By Acts Centre / CsmusicSponsored By Integrity Asia / Oops Asia / Epistage Academy

CHRISTMAS CAROL - 28 NOV 08

For those who are keen in this carolling, kindly email to sallyy0507@hotmail.com :

1. Names.

2. Email address.

3. Contact No.

4. Church attending.

Southern Ridges on 22 November 2008- For Single Christain Only

Dear Brothers & Sisters,

Time for some fresh air and greenery !

We are planning a leisurely walk to down the Southern Ridges, followed by dinner at Vivo City.

We would like to keep this walk cosy so we will cap the number to 15 brothers and 15 sisters.

Here are the details:

Date: Saturday 22 November 2008
Time: 4:00pm -8pm
Meeting Point: Harbour Front MRT Control Station.
Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address, Gender, Current Church Attending and Contact Number to:
Pamela (wucp@hotmail.com)/Aim (aimlps@singnet.com.sg

Beulah Christmas Event

FULL REGISTRATION FOR SIS, VACANCIES FOR BRO ONLY

BEULAH Christmas Dinner & Wine Party + Movie Night13 Dec 2008 (Sat) 5.30pm -10.30pmCathay Cineleisure (6th floor) – Exclusive Preview Lounge $45 per pax, or $126 if sign up in group of 3s ($42 only)HighlightsIce-breakers * Gift Exchange * Carols * Candlelight service Moscato (free-flow) * Alternate seats for 80paxRemindersBe on time! * No jeans, Slippers or Collarless T-shirt * Bring a gift of f$10 for Exchange * Sign up earlyFor Beulah members and Christian friends onlyTo register, email kokwah@beulah.sg or SMS 97788883 “Beulah/Name/Gender/Church/Email/DOB”http://www.beulah.sg/

Fellowship at Marina Barrage on 6 Dec 2008

FULL REGSITRATION FOR SIS, VACANCIES FOR BROS ONLY

Dear Brothers and Sisters, Do you want to be the First to set foot on the First Reservoir in the City? Are you Game for some Games and Prizes to be Won? Register Now to Avoid Disappointment!
Let us meet at Marina Bay MRT Station to take the bus to Marina Barrage. We shall kick off by some Fun-Thrilled Games and Prizes. After which, we will take a Stroll and Admire the Spectacular Views of the surroundings. Want to Experience two Different Scenic on the Same Day? This is the best time to enjoy Both Views of the Day and Night. We will view the Impressive Singapore Gallery on Environmental Efforts. Want to see and know how the Sea Change? Come and Experience it! You will be Amazed!
Last but not least, we will enjoy our dinner at a nearby eatery.
Program Highlights:
· 5:00pm - Games and Prizes to kick off
· 6:15pm - Stroll and Admire the Spectacular Views of the
Different Scenic (the sea/skyline/city)
- Discover how the Barrage Operates.
· 7:15pm - View the Impressive Singapore Gallery on Environmental Efforts
· 8:00pm - A Meal at a nearby eatery
Date: Saturday 6 Dec 2008
Meeting Time: 4:00pm
Meeting Place: To be announced to Signed up Participants.

Registration:
Please Email your Name, Email Address, Gender, Current Church Attending and Contact Number to:
Angela (aglp0912@yahoo.com.sg) & Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com)

Seminar by Ps Benny Ho: "Re-Visiting The Great Commission" on 29 Nov 2008 @ Church of Singapore Marine Parade

Dear Brothers and Sisters-in-Christ,

Our last seminar for the year 2008 will be on 29 Nov 08 @ Church of Singapore Marine Parade,
and Ps Benny will be sharing with us on "Re-Visiting The Great Commission".

“RE-VISITING THE GREAT COMMISSION
- GLOBAL VISION & LOCAL FOCUS”

Dr Augustus Strong said:

“What are churches for but to make missionaries?
What is education for but to train them?
What is transport for but to carry them?
What is money for but to send them?
What is life itself for but to fulfill the purpose of missions
– the enthroning of Christ in the hearts of every man,
woman and child in the face of this earth?”

Mission is the imperative of the local church. The Holy Spirit is the dynamo
behind missions. And the Church of Jesus Christ is the divinely appointed vehicle.

The apostles received the Great Commission in Matthew 28 and the Great Compulsion
of the Holy Spirit in Acts 1: 8 but they never quite did it!

The Early Church pretty much wrapped up the gospel with a Jewish flag and kept the
blessings of the Gospel within their own Jewish people and their own beloved Jerusalem.

This course seeks to uncover the hidden message in the Book of Acts which recorded
not so much the readiness of the Early Church to spread the Gospel but rather their
reluctance to do so!

Come and see how the Holy Spirit turned their reluctance into resolve and unleashed
a mission force that transformed the world for Jesus Christ!


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Date: 29th (Saturday) November 2008
Time: 9.30am to 12.30pm

Place: Church Of Singapore @ Marine Parade
145 Marine Parade Road SE449274

Registration Fees: S$5/- per Participant
(Seminar Materials will be provided)

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HOW TO GET THERE?

Buses along Joo Chiat Rd: 16 & 16A
Buses along Marine Parade Rd: 15, 16, 31, 36, 43, 48, 76,
135, 196, 197, 541, 853C & 966


WHERE TO PARK?

Please kindly park your car at public carparks opposite the church, Katong Mall or Parkway Parade.

Please refer to www.streetdirectory.com.sg for direction.


HOW TO REGISTER?

Registration is required for this session even though Admission is Free.

Please reply to this email douglim@singnet.com.sg stating your Name and Contact number. For group registrations, please indicate the number of attendees.

Upon confirmation of your Registrations, you will receive a confirmation slip, this confirmation slip will be your entry ticket to the seminar.


ADMITTANCE is STRICTLY BY REGISTRATION ONLY


PLEASE feel free to forward this email and inform your friends of this seminar.

ALL FOR HIS GLORY!

douglas limARROWS RESOURCESwww.arrowsinstitute.com

Mobile: (65) 97 484 595Blk298 #06-463 Punggol Central Singapore 820298
To unsubscribe from our e-mailing list, please write to douglim@singnet.com.sg

Pulau Ubin Cycling Sat 15 Nov 08

Hi brothers & sisters,

For those who have not been to Pulau Ubin, I would say it's high time that you guys & gals see the greenery and fresh air of this picturesque island. It is not small as some of you would think (twice the size of Sentosa), I ever cycled for 22 km in the island is only two-third of the destinations I accomplished.

The details are as follows:

1) Date/Time: Sat 15 Nov 08, 10.00am to 7pm (whole day event to
explore the island)

2) Venue : Changi Village Bus Terminal Point ( a few minutes walk to
Changi Ferry Terminal). See attached map.

3) Public transport : Bus Nos 2 from Bedok Bus/MRT station

4) Requirement: MUST be able to ride bicycle. You cannot walk
around the island, you will be exhausted.

5) Max people : 30 people (perferably 15 gals & 15 guys) on first
come first serve basis.

6) For more details of the island, visit web site at
http://www.wildsingapore.com/ubin/

For those who drive, there are ample parking spaces in the open car park there.For those who can come at 10am, we will have breakfast for half hour at the hawker centre near the bus terminal. Thereafter, we will proceed to the ferry point to the island.

If you are interested in the above exploring of Ubin island, kindly email or sms me as your name, gender and your contact nos. The closing date is Thur 13 Nov 08, 11pm or max people achieved.

Hear from you all soonest. Thank you.

Shalom,
Daniel
d_ltc@yahoo.com/franky@pacific.net.sg

Beautiful SundayConcert

Dear all,

This time the Beautiful SundayConcert will present 'Big Screen Hits' by West Winds, featuring moviehits such as Out of Africa, The Incredibles, Indiana Jones. We had to turn down a few very late responses the last time. So pleasehelp us, by registering early, to faciitate our arrangement - register thru www.justmeet.com.sg.

Don't miss this free concert!
Details:Venue : Esplanade Concert Hall
Date:9 November 2008, Sunday
Time: 2.15pm to 5.00pm
Programme:2.15pm > meet outside Esplanade Concert Hall2.30pm > Proceed to Concert Hall3 - 4pm > Enjoy 1 hour Concert with no intermission4 - 5pm > Afternoon TeaTea Venue:Xin Wang Hong Kong Cafe#01-04/05, 6 Raffles Boulevard, Marina SquareSingapore 039594
Closing date for Application:6th November 2008, Thursday

1) CYCLING/MAKAN/MOVIE/SUPPER ON 1 NOV 2008

Dear Brothers and Sisters, Let us have a day of fun and fellowship on East Coast Park. We will Cycling, RollerBlade (which ever that suits) Swimming, SunBathing etc.. Those who are cycling, you may want to stop by Ben & Jerry's to grab an ice-cold ice-cream.

Program Highlights:
12:00pm Cycling @ East Coast Park
5:30pm - Dinner at Smith Street.
7:00pm - Movie/Karaoke (in town...)
10:30pm - Supper
Date: 1 Nov 2008 (Sat)
Meeting Time: 12:00pmVenue: EAST COAST PARK MACDONALDS

Registration:
Please Email your Name, Email Address and Contact Number to:
Franky mailto:franky@pacific.net.sg) ,
Sally (sallyy0507@hotmail.com)

21 Questions to ask before you say “I Do”

1. Do we connect spiritually?
2. Does our relationship draw us closer to the Lord?
3. Can I respect him/her?
4. Do I enjoy being with him/her?
5. Am I romantically attracted to him/her?
6. Can we communicate deeply?
7. Can I accept his/her life style?
8. Can I accept his/her weaknesses?
9. Do I appreciate his/her strengths?
10. Are we compatible in temperament and personality?
11. Can we adjust to any cultural and family background differences?
12. Do we share the same outlook and values in life?
13. Do we share similar life goals?
14. Do I have his/her family blessing?
15. Do I want him or her to be the father/mother of my children?
16. Do we agree on the areas of ministry both in and out of church?
17. Do I feel the peace and joy from the Lord when I am with this person?
18. Do I have my friends’ blessings and support for my choice?
19. Do we build each other up when we are together?
20. Is this the person I want to spend the rest of my life with?
21. Am I ready for the responsibility of establishing a family?

http://www.singlesfocusgroup.org/?q=node/6

SFG Soon Kuay Fellowship (Confirmed Event) - For Single Christain Only

Please email current church u are attending for registration.

Classification: Other types of events
Event Date & Time: 22 Nov 2008 6pm
Event Venue: Church in East Coast
Meeting Point: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Group Size: 50
Dress Code: Smart Casual
Registration Details: franky@pacific.net.sg

fellowship on a Beautiful Island

Dear Brothers and Sisters, Let us have a day of fun and fellowship on a Beautiful Island. We shall take the Sentosa Express from VivoCity to Sentosa. The Sentosa Pass is at S$3.00 a person per day and includes admission to Sentosa Island. We will have activities like Beach Volleyball, Cycling, RollerBlading, Swimming, SunBathing etc.. Those who are cycling, you may want to stop by Ben & Jerry's to grab an ice-cold ice-cream. We will have a fun-filled excitement on the Sentosa Luge & Skyride. It is part Go-Cart, part-toboggan. Want to know more.. Jump on the Sentosa Luge & Skyride to have a Great Experience! We will gather for dinner at an air-conditioned food court. After dinner, we shall proceed for the main attraction at the Songs of the Sea that is not to be missed. This time is different, Come and Experience it! Last but not least, we will enjoy the nice and cool ambience by the Beach while having a drink and a nice chat. Program Highlights:
Free & Easy Activities: Beach Volleyball/ Cycling/ RollerBlading/ Swimming/ SunBathing
Sentosa Luge & Skyride - Optional Activity: Luge & Skyride:S$10.00 / Skyride only: One Way:S$6.00 Two Way:$10.00
6:00pm - Gather for Dinner

7:40pm - Songs of the Sea
8:30pm - Drinks by the Beach
Date: 8 Nov 2008 (Sat)
Meeting Time: 2:00pmVenue: Sentosa Station (VivoCity, level 3) next to Food Republic Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address and Contact Number to:
Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com) ,
Vera (vera@icreationsdesign.com) *God creates an opportunity for us to meet. Let us treasure this opportunity to know each other further. Awaiting for your favourable reply.Have a blessed week ahead. God Bless,Louis

1) Aardman Animation Showcase

Hey here's the infor for the event:

Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address and Contact Number to:

denise whatsupp_doc@yahoo.com
Franky franky@pacific.net.sg

Aardman Animation Showcase
31/10/2008 Friday
7pm (90 mins)
By Singapore Film Society
Free Seating
$9.00 + $1.00 (booking fee)
Gallery Theatre, National Mueseum of Singapore

But I'm not sure how the payment should be.. buy your own would be easier I suppose..
Dinner bef and coffee after?

http://www.sfs.org.sg/event.php?id=173

Southern Ridges Walk - Beginners: (For Single Christain Only)

26 October 2008
Sunday 4:30pm - Alexandra Road,

Bring water and towel and wear comfortable walking shoes.
Interested Please email to Esther: Estar001@yahoo.com

Hi-Tea Buffet at Lao Bei Jing

FULL REGISTRATION FOR SIS

Date: 25 Oct (Sat)

Hi-Tea Buffet at Lao Bei Jing ($15.80++ per pax) - (They got big round table - ideal for socialising)Ideal no. of participants: 30 pax (15 Bros, 15 Sis)

Contact person - Eunice email: eunicehuey@hotmail.com
- Franky email: franky@pacific.net.sg

7pm - Dinner/Coffee Session. (maybe combining with some christain singing khakis!)

To register: Please indicate your email address and contact no. church

Relationship: Talk about Future

When people fall in love, they tend to care about current feeling, current plan, current thinking.All are about current and now.But when I'm going to start a relationship, I may discuss a lot about future plan.Hey it's only a relationship, why need to plan so far to the future.Yes, It's true. It's only a relationship, a BGR, not even an engagement.But I don't want to spend/ invest so many times with a wrong guy.If we can't work together for the future, why now I'm wasting my time with walking to a dead end?One day I may need to turn away. Why should I wait until don't know when, why I don't think and decide it now. It will save me a lot from troubles that might happen.If I know it's not gonna work, why I must pretend that it might work someday.I like planning the future. But to some people it may frightened them.
http://noturningpoint.blogspot.com/search/label/relationship

Couples In Crisis A Talk by Benny Bong 22 Oct 08, Wed 7:15-9:15pm CREST Christian Book Corner

FREE ADMISSION Limited Capacity! Registration is required. Register via e-mail giving us your 1. Name 2.church 3. contact no.

Marriage is a fascinating topic for many as it represents an idealstate, the fulfillment of dreams and a way to attain personal happiness.Why then do things go wrong for some couples?Benny Bong, who has recently written the book 'Couples in Crisis' would address this issue with practical and insightful sharing that is drawnfrom his experience in working with couples in marital distress.

About the speaker Benny Bong is a Family and Marital Therapist, and the Director of FamilyWorks. He has a Masters in Social Work from the McGill University,Canada. With more than 25 years of experience, he is not a novice incounselling but yet, would admit to having much to learn from hisclients. Benny is also engaged in the training and mentoring ofprofessionals. He also lectures at the National University of Singapore.Benny is a founding member and the current President of the SocietyAgainst Family Violence. He is married and has a daughter.

CREST Christian Book Corner#05-58 Far East Plaza , 14 Scotts Rd, SE228213Tel:6235-8593 / 67378-344Sundays: 1:30 - 5:30pmMon-Sat: 11am - 8pm (till 7pm on Sat)
Crest Christian mail to: events@crest.com.sg

RESPONDING TO THE ECONOMIC SHAKING by Pastor Benny Ho

RESPONDING TO THE ECONOMIC SHAKING by Pastor Benny Ho

Date: 22nd (Wednesday) October 2008
Time: 7.30pm to 9.30pm
Place: Church Of Singapore @ Marine Parade
Do note that ADMISSION is FREE, but REGISTRATION is required.
Please reply to this email douglim@singnet.com.sg stating your Name and Contact number. For group registrations, please indicate the number of attendees. Upon confirmation of your Registrations, you will receive a confirmation slip, this confirmation slip will be your entry ticket to the seminar. ADMITTANCE is STRICTLY BY REGISTRATION ONLY

Mersing Kelong 08-09 Nov'08(Sat-Sun)

This kelong takes 30min of boat ride from Mersing(Malaysia) and
another 2 hours of coach ride from Singapore-Mersing.
For those who had gone with us in July'07 and Jan'08 to Mersing Kelong,
this time round, we are going to a different kelong and experience
a new scenic tranquil beautiful environment ideal for relaxation.
Anyway, please come and join us if you are free on that weekend.

franky franky@pacific.net.sg

Event Information:

Date: 08 to 09 Nov'08 ( Sat Sun)

Time: Depart SIN 8am-Arrive SIN 5pm

Venue: Mersing Kelong

Total Cost: $100 (payment via DBS A/C Transfer)

In addition, the package also inclusives of


* Sunday shopping at Jusco on way back from Kelong

* Lunch/Dinner at Seafood Restaurant on way back to SIN
Group Size : 30

Registration Closes when Target Size has reached

Main fun activities include :
a) Kelong fishing
b) Boat to Seaside for swimming,captain ball,volleyball etc
c) Fellowship/Games
d) Feasting of seafood especially Crabs!!
e) Shopping at Jusco
f) Lunch/Dinner at Seafood Restaurant b4 coming back SIN
Facilities inside Kelong
1) Six Standard room
2) One Family room for group
3) Astro TV / Karaoke / VCD / Majhong
4) Free flow coffee or Tea
5) Boat fishing (additional charges SGD)
6) Other additional charges (SGD) for Barbeque
7) Free Fresh Tap water / Shower
Interested party, please reply me with the below information:
- Your Name:
- Gender:
- Contact no.:
- Email address:
- Passport Expiry
~ Any Christian friends inviting:
Cheers,

Sat morning walk - 18 Oct

Event: Saturday Morning Walk at Botanical Garden on 18 Oct
(For Christian Only)

Meeting Place: Main Gate facing Gleneagles Hospital
Date : 18 Oct (Sat)
Time : 9.00 am
Programme : 9.15 am start walk ~ 10.45 am
Lunch :11.00 am - 12 noon Botanical Garden Food Court (basement)
Afternoon Movie (optional)


Attire: PE attire with comfortable footwear for the walk
Things to bring: Water Bottle,Cap, sun screen, sunglasses

To register: Please indicate your email address and contact no.
Please email to Pamela wucp@hotmail.com (Primary organiser)
Sally sallyy0507@hotmail.com (Secondary organiser)

Lest We Forget - 10 Oct Fri) 7.30pm

Film Watching: "Lest We Forget" , Johannes Facius

Venue: Cornerstone.

date: 10 Oct Fri) 7.30pm

Meeting Place: 6.45pm at The Odean Katong level 1 escalator

Contact: jess_in_sg@yahoo.com.sg

Social events etiquette for singles

Tue, May 13, 2008AsiaOne
Many articles have been written on dating, but few define the acceptable social graces of attending a singles' event. Lydia, principal life coach of Wow-Her.com.sg, shares some valuable tips based on her observations and feedbacks gathered from singles singaporean.

1. Be friendlyKeep an open mind, relax, smile and have eye contact. A social event is a chance for you to have fun meeting more people of the opposite sex with varied interests and backgrounds.
Not everyone shares the same sense of humour, but do try and appreciate someone's efforts to be witty. Be gracious to participants who are shy and slower to open up to people. Be kind even though that person may not appeal to you, as their friends might and people do talk. Don't be hasty to judge against others because of gender differences in communication. Be aware of proper dining and networking etiquette by eating slowly and enjoying the conversation. The focus should be on the people, not on the food or getting drunk.

2. Show an interest in others Great conversationalists are set apart by their ability to make their companions feel like the only person in the room. Everyone likes to feel special and even very shy people like to talk about themselves, so show genuine interest in what they are saying.
Maintain friendly eye contact. Show sincerity in knowing them as a person.

3. Conversation topics
Heavy topics like marriage, past relationships, income, religion, politics, complaints or distasteful jokes (sexist, racist, religious, etc.) should be avoided as it might scare the person away on the first meeting. Keep the conversation light by talking about hobbies, food, movies, music or upcoming events. Be conscious of "showing off" or dominating the conversation as you may come across as being arrogant and self-centred. Try not to 'win' or get the upper hand in any conversation. You're not participating in a debate.

4. Dress right
Check with the organisers on the dress code for the event. When you turn up appropriately dressed, you show that you care enough to make the effort to impress and that you respect the occasion, your fellow attendees and yourself! Turn up on clean and pressed clothes, and hair that is tidy. Ladies should put on some makeup. Don't overdress or be too revealing, or you may project the wrong image.

5. Establish connections
Find common interests and hobbies with your new found friends as a way for them to remember you when you contact them again. For example, you meet Lady A at an event and both of you love scuba-diving. So when you contact her again, you can mention that you are the guy who enjoys scuba-diving as much as she does. Give them something to remember you by. We meet about 20 to 40 people per event. Not everyone can recall all the persons they meet.

6. Hogging
You may meet someone that captured your heart so much that you want to know him or her better. To prevent competition, you spend the rest of the event talking to her only. But your conversation partner may not share the same sentiments. Be gracious enough to let him or her interact with others too.

7. Punctuality
Being on time creates the right impression. If you happen to be late due to circumstances beyond your control (e.g. bad traffic conditions), do apologise to the organiser and the participants for being the cause of the delay.

8. Safety
At the end of the social event, guys may offer to send the ladies home. Some ladies may not be comfortable to let him know where they live. In this case, respect her privacy. Offer to walk her to the bus-stop or taxi stand instead. She will be grateful that you respect her decision and care for her safety too.

9. Follow Up
After the event, you may want to contact people whom you wish to get to know better and explore possibilities of friendship or even a relationship. The social event is just a platform to meet singles. Subsequent friendships can be only forged by staying in contact. Asking a person to meet up for a second time just means that you would like to get to know the person better. It does not necessarily mean a steady relationship has been agreed to. A firm relationship takes time to develop. So relax and have fun meeting different people. You may feel obliged to give your email address to another participant as everyone else is exchanging contacts. So if someone wishes to contact you but they are not exactly your type. So how can you handle the matter? Decline the next date gracefully. Just say politely "No thank you, I am not interested." And no matter how incompatible you are, it is still basic courtesy to reply to emails or sms.

Dinner & wine on the eve of Deepavali (26 Oct)

(REGISTRATION FOR SIS IS FULL)

What are you doing on the eve of Deepavali (26 Oct)? If youare not out of town, how about meeting new friends overdinner & wine?

Date: 26 Oct (Sun)

Time: 7pm till late

Venue: to be disclose to signed up participants
Group Size: 24 (12 ladies & 12 guys)

Profile: Christian singles in their 30s and 40s

If you are a DBS credit card holder, it is 50% discount offmain course. Well, even if you are not, I am sure a nicegentleman or lady will be willing to share it with you.To register, please drop me an email personally before 12Oct. Thanks. (Please email the current church u are attending)

Best regards

Karen kuchintalim@hotmail.com
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/AgapeOikos/

Beautiful Sunday Concert - 'Let's Boogie' by (SMU) Symphonia (For Single Christian Only)

Beautiful Sunday Concert - 'Let's Boogie' by (SMU) Symphonia (For Single Christian Only) Activity: Beautiful Sunday Concert - 'Let's Boogie' by Singapore Management University (SMU) Symphonia (No fee involved) Venue : Esplanade Concert Hall Event Date & Time: 12 Oct 2008 2:30pm Event Venue: Esplanade Concert Hall

http://www.justmeet.com.sg/

register@justmeet.com.sg

Choosing-the-Right-Partner-for-Life

http://www.chc.org.sg/harvesttimes/ht_35/PDF/Choosing-the-Right-Partner-for-Life_Part-C.pdf

http://www.chc.org.sg/harvesttimes/ht_33/ht_33_11a.asp http://www.chc.org.sg/harvesttimes/ht_33/ht_33_12a.asp

1-for-1 ice cream

Relationship: Feeling or Logic, Love or Commitment?

How to know that I have found the one?First thing first,Do not let your feeling role!Let the brain take over my feeling.I will decide after I have a deep consideration and thinking carefully. Not based on my feeling alone.I will know that he's the one if...I love him and I want to change NOTHING from him.Only if he has been himself in front of me. :)Nothing manipulated during the courtship.To accept him whatever he is.For example:When I know he is snoring and I still want to be with him, even though I will have difficulty to sleep.I will still love him and accept him with his snoring.Woman has tendency to change the one she loves.But man hopes the woman she loves never changes.Remember that man hardly changes. I will be disappointed if I wish he can change for me, for my sake.But that doesn't mean that he will never change.Always give space for each other to grow. :)He may not be the most perfect guy, but I can learn to love him perfectly.Few questions to ponder:what do you want him to change?Can I endure with his unchanged-habit for a lifetime?Is being together with him makes my life better? or just leads me to countless suffering?Let's say he's jobless and a lazy bump.Can you survive with love only? (read: Are you going to eat love?)It's not suggestible to decide based on love alone.Because love does change, and love between two human does not last.Relationship is all about commitment.When love does wither, commitment stays.
Labels: oh love~, relationship
http://noturningpoint.blogspot.com/search/label/oh%20love~
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xgjIDFsFx_k&feature=related

Christian Music Performances - 26 Sep 08

After a month's break, Songwriters Showcase is back! This time we are featuring Jean Tan & Laverne Ong this September.

26 Sept 08, Fri

7.30pm - 9.30pm

Acts CentreChina Square Central

B1-0518 Cross StreetSingapore 048423

Jean Tan. Combining influences from folk, alternative and acoustic music and deriving inspiration from the Psalms, Jean's songs of adoration and struggle are honest, bare expressions of her daily walk with God and through life. By the Spirit she hopes to minister to those who listen and impact those who are searching - music is from heaven after all - while broadening definitions of mainstream Christian music in her experiences with acapella, choral music, world languages and various acoustic gigs.

Laverne Ong. Having a mother who was a piano teacher and a father who has a wonderful singing voice, Laverne grew up in a musical family. She started piano at the tender age of 4 but only started composing when she was 16. Since then, she has been joining many composing competitions and some singing competitions. Early this year, she released her album-- Colours of My Life under an independent label--Soundbites, and has since then been performing regularly. She is also in a jazz band-- Radical Context, as the singer. Radical Context has performed in places like Esplanade, Timbre, national libraries and for wedding gigs.So far, she has 2 first prizes, 2 second prizes, 2 third prizes under her belt. Also, she had been a composer with Touch Publishing when she was 19 and sold 4 songs locally and internationally. Although she has a degree in life sciences, her love and passion for music led to her being the music director of a learning music centre, Music Mocha, early this year too.

Queens driving range on 29th September

Hi all

Anyone interested to go to Queens driving range on 29th September at 7 pm?

Do drop me an email with your contact number...

Cheers,

Kylie Yeo kylieyeo@singnet.com.sg

ANNUAL OVERNITE SFG CAMP OUT!

OCTOBER 26TH TO 27TH (SUNDAY TO MONDAY)
Please note that Monday is a public holiday.
VENUE: NATIONAL COMMUNITY LEADERSHIP INSTITUTE (NACLI)
AT THE FOOT OF the BEAUTIFUL KENTRIDGE PARK, SOUTH BUONA VISTA ROAD
COST : $48
(inclusive of Accomodation, Scrumptious BBQ dinner, Breakfast and Free Flow Fellowship)
SIGN UP NOW mailto:...beulah1234@hotmail.com /franky@pacific.net.sg ASAP TO AVOID DISAPPOINTMENT!
PLEASE CLICK "READ MORE" ABOVE TO FIND OUT MORE!

http://www.singlesfocusgroup.org/

Receiving Wholeness Through Christ-

Are there things hindering your personal walk and growth in your relationship with the Lord? - Are you experiencing the abundant life and wholeness of Jesus in your life? - Are you aware that our Lord Jesus has taken away our generational curses and now we can live in that freedom? Come and be blessed in this 2 day seminar, on 26 and 27 Sept. YWCA. Seminar fee has been highly subsidise, for just $50/- . Seats are limited. Register today. http://www.rivergloryministries.com/WTC/

PAWS AT THE BEACH - 5 OCT

SPCA’s World Animal Day 2008 — Paws at the Beach!

World Animal Day is here again! Keep the 5 October free because we want you to come to East Coast Park to join us. We have lined up loads of fun and activities in support of our animal friends. For more details, please hook on to http://www.spca.org.sg/whatsnew.html#WAD08

Please forward this information/email to as many friends, relatives and colleagues as possible. The more that come, the merrier!

Attached is the flyer for you to pin up on office or school notice boards.

Hope to see you there!
SPCA’s World Animal Day 2008 — Paws at the Beach!

World Animal Day is here again! Keep the 5 October free because we want you to come to East Coast Park to join us. We have lined up loads of fun and activities in support of our animal friends. For more details, please hook on to http://www.spca.org.sg/whatsnew.html#WAD08

Please forward this information/email to as many friends, relatives and colleagues as possible. The more that come, the merrier!

Attached is the flyer for you to pin up on office or school notice boards.

Hope to see you there!

Makan Drinking Session at Vivo/St James Firefly. (For Single Christians Only)

Coffee/Drinking/Makan session in town (21th Sep 2008) - for 20 pax Please register giving - Your Name: - Gender: - Contact no.: - Email address: - Church:

Event Date & Time: (21th Sep 2008) 7pm-11pm
Event Venue: Vivo City
Meeting Point: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Group Size: 20
Dress Code: Smart Casual
Registration Details: eventfsc@hotmail.com

Cycling at Ubin this Sat (20th Sep 2008) - (For Singles Christians Only- Confirmed event)

Please register - Your Name: - Gender: - Contact no.: - Email address: - Church:
Event Date & Time: 20 Sep 2008 1:30pm
Event Venue: Ubin
Meeting Point: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Group Size: 20
Dress Code: Casual
Registration Details: eventfsc@hotmail.com

Coffee/Drinking/Makan session in town (20th Sep 2008) - For Single Christians Only (Limited Vacancies) - Confirmed Event

Makan Coffee Session for 30 pax Please register giving - Your Name: - Gender: - Contact no.: - Email address: - Church:
Event Date & Time: 20th Sep 2008 6pm - 10pm
Event Venue: Town
Meeting Point: to be disclosed to signed up participants. (in town)
Group Size: 30
Dress Code: Smart Casual
Register through: franky@pacific.net.sg/justin_victor_wang@live.com

SFG Christmas Event

Dear all,

Due to overwhemling reponses, the registration is now closed.

Thank you all for your support.

Blessings,
www.singlesfocusgroup.org

Younger hubby? It's OK with me

Ana Ow
Thu, Sep 11, 2008my paper
I'M A big believer in the philosophy of age being just a number.
And, now, I'm learning exactly how true that is.
At age 32, I find myself blessed with the love of a 20-year-old man. He made his heartfelt vows to me in June before 70 people at our small wedding celebration.
There's more: come November, we are going to be first-time parents after having dated for just a year.
We first met in dance class when I was a teacher at a local dance studio. Then 16 going on 17, he obviously wasn't suitable dating material for me.
But when he turned 19 and we began to socialise both on and off the dance floor, it became apparent that we were connecting on a deeper level.
He listened, providing comfort and warmth in a way I hadn't felt before. He doesn't play the mind games of an older man. Nor does he have the ego of one. Even though I felt a little like Mrs Robinson, he almost made me feel as though I was in my teens again.
And we were sure of marriage shortly after our relationship began.
We made plans to marry in a typically modern fashion: when I ran out of closet space after living with him for eight months.
We were all set to start saving up for a wedding bash and a nest to call our own. And then came the baby, throwing a sweet spanner in the works and speeding up the process.
Now, my husband is confined in camp and will have just ended his basic military training (BMT) by the time I deliver in November.
While it has never occurred to me that it would be an issue to commit to someone 12 years younger while carrying my first-born, there were those who were angered by my choices.
My father maintained a stoic yet somewhat shocked demeanour. He has calmed down somewhat since we got married and has even become quite supportive. My aunt, his younger sister, however, demanded that I re-think my actions.
Then there are other auntie- types who gossip and dwell on the situation, unable to accept that people more than a decade apart could find love and acceptance with one another.
Our reality does not escape me. He's doing BMT in Tekong now and I'm alone, whereas my other mummy-to-be friends have their husbands (who are all closer to their age) ferrying them around to their ultrasound check-ups.
There's also a certain pressure on me as I become the sole breadwinner in the equation. And as he progresses into National Service, I find myself missing him.
He gets five minutes every night on the phone with me now that he's at field camp. I know that he feels frustrated and helpless, trying to squeeze in every ounce of love and support into one short conversation.
And though there are those who say that he's too young to be taken seriously as a husband or a father-to-be, he takes so naturally to his new role.
While his friends can hardly see their future beyond Fridaynight clubbing, he delights in trips to Ikea, plans for homeownership and obsesses over which household appliances would be the best buy.
I have no doubt that he'll make the best of fathers.
He talks to the baby in my belly often, reading him fairytales on the weekends when he books out from camp and nagging me to remember to "play theMozart music at bedtime" to develop his son's spatial-reasoning abilities.
Naysayers can criticise us, but the one I take the most comfort from these days is my unborn child, whose lack of life experience makes him not na?ve but, in my mind, the master of living without fear of rejection and failure.In any case, the way he kicks in my belly sure feels that way.

YMCA Christian Seminar on 7 Steps to Victory on Thursday 9 Oct 08.

You are invited to join us for YMCA Christian Seminar on 7 Steps to Victory on Thursday 9 Oct 08. This is open to public and everyone is welcomed. http://www.ymca.org.sg/enews/sevensteps.jpg

Lee Guitars All-Star Concert - 29 Nov 08

Lee Guitars All-Star Concert Singapore 2008Lee Guitars All-Star 新加坡演唱會 2008

LATEST NEWS

Internet Booking starts on 8 Sept 2008, 9am.Other sales channel starts on 8 Sept 2008, 10am.

CONDITIONS OF SALEMore conditions of sale

DATE 29 Nov 2008 Sat, 8pm

DURATION Approx 2 1/2 Hrs

VENUE Singapore Indoor Stadium

TICKET PRICE (Exclude Booking Fee)Standard -

S$168,S$148, S$128, S$108, S$78

Please add to above price $3 Booking Fee for tickets above $20 and $1 Booking Fee for tickets $20 and below. Charges include GST where applicable. Click for Seat Plan

ADMISSION RULESNo admission for infant in arms and child aged below 2 years old. Child 2 years old and above must purchase ticket for admission. * No Photography, Video recording and Audio recording is allowed for this event!
DISCOUNT & CONCESSIONSClick for Details
Email to a friend

PromoterRock Records (S) Pte Ltd


LANGUAGEEnglish & Mandarin
SYNOPSIS
強檔雲集 無限精彩 星光璀璨 共訴“琴”懷周華健、五月天、蔡健雅、張震嶽及李宗盛當今5位頂尖創作歌手將首次同台，以歌聲呈現出吉他與創作人之間的情感故事。動人的經典歌曲，無限的舞台魅力，它像一幕故事精彩，飽含深情的音樂劇集，整場演出以“情”字貫穿始終，從李宗盛由資深音樂人到制琴師角色的轉變，連同另外4位同樣與吉他有著深厚感情的創作歌手，以自己的親身經歷演繹出吉他在音樂人的創作生涯中所扮演的舉足輕重的地位，盡在這樣一個難忘的夜晚與您分享！想要一次過欣賞目前叱吒樂壇創作人的同台演出, 親身參與一場難得的樂壇盛事, 千萬別錯過這場令人期待的音樂饗宴!

Catch Asia’s top 5 composer-singers Emil Chau, Mayday, Tanya Chua, Zhang Zhen Yue & Jonathan Lee performing “live” together for the first time ever! Let Asia’s top musicians share with you how guitar playing have changed their lives and how the strings have brought about their successful music piece. Be fascinated as classic hits are performed and through their performances unfold their life music stories. Stringing together a night of beautiful tunes this is a night not to be missed by music lovers.

Matchmaking meet

PHOTO: ASHLEIGH SIM

Mon, Sep 08, 2008The Straits Times

Matchmaking meet 10 min-->
They share CVs to find mates for their children at first such event here

Parents took matters into their own hands, saying their children were too busy for a social life. --
WITH a picture of her son in her handbag, housewife Wang Lianzhi mingled with some 150 parents at the Speakers' Corner yesterday for a mass matchmaking session.
'My son's 30. He's never had a girlfriend. He's working on his computer all the time and seldom goes out,' explained Mrs Wang, 67.
So she decided to play Cupid, distributing his business card to other parents.
It was the first parents' matchmaking session, organised by dating agency Clique Wise which had taken up a suggestion by Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong.
PM Lee had floated the idea of having parents play matchmaker for their children in his National Day Rally speech last month.
He described how thousands of parents in Beijing secretly sought out spouses for their children at such sessions, commonly held in parks, and suggested Singapore parents try it too.
Yesterday, they did. Parents took matters into their own hands, saying their children were too busy for a social life.
Many like Mrs May Jow, 60, came without their children's knowledge. 'I took my daughter's photograph from the drawer without telling her,' she said.
The matchmaking process was simple: Parents exchanged details of their children like age, education and current job, and asked to see a picture of the 'candidate'. Some whipped out passport-sized photographs, others 4R-sized pictures. One parent came with an 8R computer printout of the family posing with the candidate in a graduation gown.
Parents were not only scrutinising the candidate's looks, but also sussing out the candidate's parents to see if they came from similar backgrounds. If all goes well, they exchange phone numbers.
Some parents like Mrs Jow were on the lookout for candidates who matched their children's height and age.
'The age difference should be about three to four years and he has to be at least 1.76m tall,' said Mrs Jow, whose daughter is aged 30 and is 1.68m tall.
Parents hunting for a son-in-law also wanted someone with a higher educational qualification and a stable career.
Said housewife L.H. Heng, 55: 'My daughter has a polytechnic diploma. Her spouse cannot have any lesser than that.'
The session's organiser, Ms Lydia Gan, said the event was held at Speakers' Corner as the older generation was familiar with Hong Lim Park. It was also free.
All Ms Gan had to do was register online with the National Parks Board, since rules were eased to allow outdoor demonstrations at Speakers' Corner from Sept 1.
While the matchmaking session was registered as an exhibition, and not a demonstration, it did draw onlookers like odd job labourer Jeff Tan, 60. He had dropped by after shopping in nearby Chinatown, thinking he would catch a protest in progress.
But there was none. So far, only non-profit group Hearer of Cries has held a demonstration, staging a 10-minute protest against employers who abuse maids.
Mr Tan said: 'I wouldn't come here specially. I work in Changi and I'm living in Tampines. It's too far.'

Dinner @ Suntec Terrace on 11th October (Stictly for Christians only)

Dear all,
please email to below if u are interested.

kylieyeo@singnet.com.sg

Blessings

Hi all I've booked Suntec Terrace on 11th October, Saturday from 6.30 pm to 9.45 pm for a sumptuous buffet spread of perfectly barbequed steak, lamb, chicken, baby back pork ribs, sausages, tiger prawns, squid, fish, scallops and venus clam. Cost per person is S$25 nett payment will be advised upon registration. Buffet cost is not inclusive of drinks. Please register with name, handphone number, gender and email address. If you are also registering for your friends please provide their details as well. Deadline for registration is on 30th September, Tuesday. If you have made registration and didn't cancel before 30th September, you will have to pay for the dinner even if you don't turn up. For those thinking of gate crashing sorry it will not be entertained as seats are limited. Look forward to this grand event of the year where you can catch up with old friends and make new friends, have lots of fun and fellowship!

Singers Needed for Choir on Christmas Concert

Dear Friends,

If you have the passion for Sing and would like to join a choir, there is a good news. Currently IFC (International Festival Chorus) is seeking a few singers to join them for thier Christmas Concerts which will be held on the following dates:

- 28 Nov 2008 : Concert at Kg Kapoor Methodist Church

- 6 Dec 2008 : Carolling @ the Dutch/Hollandse Club @ Camden Park

- 8 Dec 2008 : Carolling @ Japanese Association

Their Choir will be rehearsing every Wednesday starting from 3rd September 2008 until 19 November 2008 @ United World College - Dover Road @ 7:30PM

So, if you are interested, you may contact the person-in-charge Miss Mirlani @ 96366514 (please mentioned to her that you know this information from Gunawan the_guru_onlinesg@yahoogroups.com and she will understand)

Let's Take a Walk 2008

Date: 20-21 December 2008
10km, 50km, 100km Walk
Fund Raising Events for Minds/Raleigh Society

http://www.letstakeawalk.sg/

FUND RAISING

Hi

Love the "Big Nose" dogs which are irresistibly cute? This September, Bossini introduces their exclusive Hanadeka Club Collection for kids. These adorable t-shirts are way too lovable! Featuring different breeds of dogs, this collection will appeal not only to dog lovers but to one and all.
T-shirt price ranges from $19 to $23.

You can help the animals at SPCA by making your donations at any Bossini stores this September. (SPCA donation tin will be placed at each Bossini store).


Thank you for your support.

Christian Games Affairs

Event Name : Christian Games Affairs
Event Code : EV-000103
Date / Time : 4 Oct (Sat), 3.30pm - 5.30pm
Organiser : wow-her.com
Category : Friendship Activities
Venue : All Major F&Bs establishments
As required
Singapore 999999

Description : Decoder Games Cafe is a lively and friendly boardgame cafe near Orchard. Let's gather for a refreshing afternoon of spontaneous laughter and interactivity. Try exciting board games and mingle with your newfound friends of same faith. Price includes boardgames rental, snacks and a drink.

To register, email your name, gender, IC, handphone to register@wow-her.com.sg entitled "christians games". Tel: 9795 0568. Payment details at http://www.wow-her.com.sg/payment1.htm

Meeting Point : Decoder, 271 Bukit Timah Road, #B1-04, Balmoral Plaza, Singapore 259708
Price : $ 20.00
Reg. By : 04/10/2008
Men Age 24 to 45
Women Age 22 to 45
Dress Code Smart Casual

How can I overcome feelings of rejection?

http://www.gotquestions.org/overcome-rejection.html
Question: "How can I overcome feelings of rejection?"

Answer: We are all prone to disappointment and feelings of rejection, and that is especially true in the aftermath of a broken relationship. However, as born again believers we have a resource in God's Word that can bring comfort and clarity to the situation. One person's rejection does not mean we are unlovable. But we can allow that one rejection to determine how we feel and allow that feeling to color our idea of who we are, or we can choose to put that behind us and move forward on the basis of something that is far more lasting.

What is that? For the believer, it is our position in Christ. When we are born again we are accepted. "Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in the heavenly realms with every spiritual blessing in Christ. For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us to be adopted as his sons through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will— to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves" (Ephesians 1:3-6).

Even though we do not deserve it nor can we earn it (Ephesians 2:8-9), the Lord Jesus Christ has blessed us with every spiritual blessing and has made us accepted in Him. This acceptance is His gift of grace and it transcends any and all other "feelings" we may have because it is not based on "hope so" but on "know so." We know that this is true because God's Word tells us and as we appropriate this truth by faith, it becomes reality in our hearts and lives.

Walking by our feelings is like walking through the world with our heart on our sleeve. We are bound to be hurt and we are bound to be disappointed for we live in a fallen world. What we choose to do with that hurt and disappointment will either allow us to grow stronger in our walk with the Lord or it will mean that we are walking wounded. Both outcomes are our choice. God makes it possible for us to walk through the disappointments in life with a knowledge that His provision for us works. His grace and His comfort are ours as we rest in it. Every born again child of God has all of these provisions and blessings in Christ, but we have to choose to utilize them. It is sort of like having a million dollars in the bank and choosing to starve to death because we don't use that money to buy food. It is also true that we cannot use what we do not know. Therefore, it behooves every believer to "know" the God who knows us and loves us, and that means more than devotional reading of God Word but study that changes our perspective (2 Timothy 3:16-17) and allows us to face life armed with real understanding about the reality of walking by faith.

As believers we are not defined by our past failures or by disappointment or by the rejection of others. We are defined as children of God, born again to newness of life and endowed with every spiritual blessing and accepted in Christ Jesus. That is the defining factor when it comes to victorious living. God has prepared for each of us unique opportunities to walk through the "all things" of this life. We can either walk in our own strength and what the Apostle Paul calls our "flesh," or we can walk in the power of the provision God has made for us through the Holy Spirit. It is our choice. God has provided us with armor (Ephesians 6:11-18), but it is up to us to put it on by faith.

Therefore, if you are a child of God, you may suffer disappointment in this life, but you need to remember that as a child of the King, this rejection is a momentary bump in the road. You have a choice to either allow that bump to derail you and walk wounded, or you can choose to claim the heritage of a child of God and move forward in grace. Forgiveness of others and of self is a gift that you can give because it is the gift given to us by our Lord Jesus Christ (Ephesians 4:32).

Can you give me some Christian relationship advice?

http://www.gotquestions.org/relationship-advice-Christian.html
Question: "Can you give me some Christian relationship advice?"

Answer: We often receive questions along the lines of: "I am interested in two different guys...which one should I choose to be my boyfriend." - or - "I am in a relationship and my girlfriend did/said "_____" so, should I break up with her?" These type of questions are very difficult for us to answer. GotQuestions.org is not a Christian relationship advice ministry. We will always strive to tell you what the Bible has to say about a given situation. However, in regards to relationship advice issues, the Bible rarely specifically addresses the situations we are asked about. The Bible is far more concerned with our relationship with God.

We are very reluctant to give relationship advice. It is very difficult to give wise counsel to a personal issue through an article. It is exceedingly difficult to give Christian relationship advice when we do not personally know the people involved, we are not receiving all of the details, and/or we are only receiving one side of the story. We do not presume to speak for God in giving authoritative relationship advice to Christians.

With that said, what is our advice? It is our advice that you speak with God about your relationship. Pray to the Lord, asking Him to clearly reveal to you what He would have you do (Philippians 4:6-7). Ask God to give you wisdom and discernment (James 1:5). God promises to grant prayer requests that are asked according to His will (1 John 5:14-15). Being wise and discerning are most definitely God's will. God wants you to make good relationship decisions. As a Christian, God desires you to be joyous and edified as a result of your relationships. If you ask God with an open heart and humble spirit - He will give you the relationship advice you need.

Finally, find wise counsel with mature Christians who have been married for many years and have walked with God all that time. Seek guidance from your pastor, elders or other mature church leaders. Their years of experience enables them to speak from wisdom and the knowledge of God’s in their lives.

What does the Bible say about dating / courting?

http://www.gotquestions.org/dating-courting.html
Question: "What does the Bible say about dating / courting?"

Answer: Although the words "courtship" and "dating" are not found in the Bible, we are given some principles that Christians are to go by during the time before marriage. The first thing to realize is that we must separate from the world's view on dating because God's way contradicts the world's (2 Peter 2:20). We are told (by society) to date around as much as we want, going through as many people as possible. Instead, we should discover what kind of person we are getting into a relationship with before making that commitment. We should find out if the person has been born again in the Spirit of Christ (John 3:3-8), and if they share the same desire to be as Christ was (Philippians 2:5). Why is this important in finding a partner? A Christian person should be careful not to marry an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14-15) because this could weaken your relationship with Christ, or compromise your morals and standards.

When one is in a committed relationship with someone, it is important to remember to love the Lord above anyone else (Matthew 10:37). To say or believe that the other person is your "everything" or the most important thing in your life is idolatry, which is a sin (Galatians 5:20, Colossians 3:5). Also, do not defile your body by having pre-marital sex (1 Corinthians 6:9, 13, 2 Timothy 2:22). Sexual immorality is a sin not only against God but against your own body (1 Corinthians 6:18). It is important to love and honor others as you love yourself (Romans 12:9-10), and this is certainly true for a courtship or marriage relationship as well. Following these biblical principles is the best way to have a secure foundation for a marriage. It is one of the most important decisions you will ever make because when two people marry, they cleave to one another and become one flesh, which should be permanent, inseparable (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:5).

The importance of God's Word

Psalm 119:105 (KJV) " Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. "

The Bible says in John 8:12 (NIV) When Jesus spoke again to the people, he said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life.” My friend, may His word be a lamp unto your feet and a light unto your path. God bless you.

Bible Verses by Topic
http://www.wedding-references.com/bible.htm

The Ideal Wife:
Advice to women
Praiseworthy women
Wives submit to your husbands
Woman man's helper
Women in marriage


The Ideal Husband:
Advice to men
Faithful men
Husbands love your wives
Men in marriage


The Ideal Woman:
Beautiful women in the Bible
Faithful women
Proverbs


The Ideal Man:
Handsome men
Praiseworthy men
Proper behavior of men


What the Bible Says About Marriage:
Advice to those marrying
Finding a wife
Happiness in marriage
Marriage in heaven
Purpose of marriage
Special couples in the Bible


The Sanctity of Marriage:
Creation of man & woman
Divorce
Who should you marry


Weddings:
The wedding psalm
Mystery of the marriage union
Weddings in the Bible


Love:
Perfect love
Romantic love
Strength of love
What is love?


Communication:
Communication
Dealing with disagreements
Help to save a marriage
Unity in marriage


Sex in Marriage:
Purity in marriage
Sex in marriage
Warnings against immorality


Family Relationships:
Family relationships
How to have a strong family
Will work for food


Children:
Discipline of children
Raising children

Mum or dad as Cupid? No thanks, say singles

PARENTS matchmaking their children - with a little help from the People's Association?
Matchmakers and singles, commenting on this idea floated by Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong at the National Day Rally, point out that young people today do not want mum and dad to step into their love lives.
That will 'backfire' as it pressures singles unduly, says Mr Matthew Tan, the founder of dating website gomoviedate.com .
This is especially so for highly educated, independent-minded singles in their 20s and 30s, says Ms Jennifer Yeo, the founder of Heart2Heart Connect.
Most singles feel that way, too. Investment banker Pauline Chong, 30, says she will be 'very disappointed if taxpayers money was used' for this.
'It's an infringement of personal freedom,' she argues. 'It's like five steps forward in national development, but 10 steps backward in social development.'
Sociologist Alexius Pereira of the National University of Singapore believes that parents who do care will rather tap 'their personal social networks' than turn to government-linked matchmakers.
He says: 'Most Singaporeans will just shrug it off if it's introduced as a government-sponsored measure.'
But there are others who feel the idea may work - to a degree.
'Singles are becoming more open to various ways of getting attached and meeting people, so it may work,' says Mr Laremy Lee, 25, a trainee teacher.
'But it doesn't solve the root cause of the problem: People do not have enough time to socialise, and they also do not know how to socialise.'
The idea may also fly with singles in their 40s and above, and those who desire children, says Ms Yeo.
This sliver of opportunity is enough to pique the interest of some businesses.
Mr Jackiey Kwek, the co-founder of Clique Wise Events, says he may look into similar events for parents if the market appears to be good.
Meanwhile, Singapore women are not sitting at home waiting for Prince Charming. The men, though, are still hoping to meet a - docile - dream girl.
At the Rally, the Prime Minister had told the story of a man who asked his dating agency for an independent, yet submissive, wife.
Nine out of 10 people interviewed agree that men here are still traditional. Businessman Joseph Xia, 24, admits: 'I do want a future wife to listen to what I say...Men are still quite 'stone age'.'
Financial services consultant Jaydee Quek, 24, has this to say: 'I feel that for a family to work out, the roles must be clearly defined.
'The man's role in a relationship is to lead and be a provider; the woman's role is to be a helper.'
The single adds that his views have not affected his ability to find a partner.
Women, however, have moved on.
Says Ms Chong, the investment banker: 'We are putting work first, and it's the end-result of a meritocratic
movement that started with Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew's early policies.'
At the same time, she says: 'We are trying to find a balance between love and work.'
In time, men will adapt.
Says Dr Pereira: 'The next generation of those who are now under 20 will have different ideas about women.'
This article was first published in The Straits Times on Aug 18, 2008.

Should parents be involved in our matchmaking?

REMEMBER this term - parasite singles.
It may haunt you one day, if fewer people in Singapore have babies.
Parasite singles is a term coined by a Japanese professor to refer to older single men and women who are still living with their parents.
The problem is so acute in Japan that fed-up parents have taken over the search for a mate.
Japanese traditionally house and support their children until marriage, which has usually occurred at a younger age than now.
But as the kids stay at home longer due to job uncertainty and an unwillingness to compromise, panicked parents are flocking to mass matchmaking events at hotels and conference centres, reported The Times of India.
Events have been held in 13 cities with around 6,500 participants.
Marriage agency Office Ann organises such an event. This is how it works.
Parents are handed a list of eligible men and women detailing age, background, income and soon.
Guests who like the look of a candidate take along photos and CVs of their offspring to other parents sitting in the same hall.
If the parents click, they exchange information and agree to arrange a meeting between their children.
Then the hard work of playing Cupid to unsuspecting offspring begins. 'Our son doesn't know we're here, but we hope he'll be pleased,' one parent told the Independent.
'He is just too busy to come by himself.'
Ms Saki Kazoo, president of matchmaking firm Marriage Club Wish Oklahoma, told the Independent that the children often know absolutely nothing about these meetings.
She said: 'Parents are so worried about their unmarried offspring that they feel they have to do something.'
Sociologist Masahiro Yamada, who coined the term 'parasite single', said 60 per cent of single Japanese men and 80 per cent of women still live at home and unmarried into their early thirties.
It is one of the highest rates in the world.
Prof Yamada says there are 10 million parasite singles of both sexes in Japan, reported the Independent.
Japan's fertility rate fell to a low of 1.25 in 2005, meaning more people died than were born. Without immigration to offset the shortage, the population of 127 million will halve by the end of the century, the government warned recently.
Lazy children to blame?
Prof Yamada blames the parasite phenomenon on lazy children who grew up in luxury to baby-boomer parents, but the problem is more complex.
Millions of Japanese men in their twenties and thirties toil some of the longest hours in the developed world, then spend most of their weekends sleeping, leaving little time to look for partners. Women, meanwhile, shun marriage to overworked men who are seldom around. In the middle are their worried mums and dads, says Ms Kasai.
'Some people are lucky because they find love by themselves,' she told the Independent.
'Others need a little help, from wherever they can get it. That's what we're here for.'
This article was first published in The New Paper on Aug 26, 2008.

IT'S YOUR LIFE NITE! 27TH SEPTEMBER SATURDAY

Dear all,

Due to overwhemling reponses, the registration is now closed. Thank you all for your support.

Blessings,

*The ministry seeks to inspire Christian appreciation and engagement with movies.*

*GCF Issachar Forum* presents:
*Opened Eyes In A Darkened Room*
*The ministry seeks to inspire Christian appreciation and engagement with movies.*

Plato rightly noted that, "*Those who tell stories rule society*". We believe that movies are the most prevalent and influential media that mediate stories in the society nowadays. Therefore we are taking this opportunity not only to watch movies, but to experience and learn more about God and ourselves through these media. We screen a movie at each session, then followed by *group-discussion*.

Do join us and invite others to this session:

**Movie: i, Robot*
Date: 20 Sept 2008, Saturday
Time: 3pm - 6pm
Venue: GCF, 420 North Bridge Road, #05-04, North Bridge Centre
(Nearest MRT: Bugis & City Hall)
Limited Seats Available
Please register with: Simon 6338 6283 or e-mail gcfsing@gcf.org.sg*

Matchmaking agencies in Singapore are thinking out of the box to stay ahead of the competition.

Channel NewsAsia - Tuesday, August 26

Some are going beyond just providing dating tips and are trying to find ways to help their clients build up relationships.

Over 170 dating agencies are cashing in on the growing pool of singles in Singapore. And as more come on board offering similar services, they are seeking new ways to sustain growth.

It’s Just Lunch — which caters to high—income singles like bankers, lawyers and doctors — saw its revenue grow by 25 per cent last year. To stay on top of the game, it has launched Singapore’s first "Intercity" dating.

Anisa Hassan, managing director, It’s Just Lunch, said: "What we have devised is a way where both of our clients in Singapore and Bangkok can actually meet up, and by expanding the pool of people, that they can potentially meet."

But hooking up singles does not really guarantee sustainable relationship. So the former owner of dating agency, Two to Tango, decided to take up coaching to help singles on how to date and build a relationship.

Kloudiia Tay, principal coach, Love Specialists Pte Ltd, said: "Just running a dating agency where I only match them up is really not enough. There are some fundamentals that really need to be worked on."

By coaching, she believes singles with problems finding a mate can learn to develop sustainable relationships.

She said: "There are people who are over confident. They may come across as not so likable by people from the opposite sex. We also need to help them to tone down a little bit, to really go to the level where when you go out, you will be able to get the person..."

Private dating agencies may see tougher challenges ahead with the upcoming merger of the Social Development Unit and Social Development Service.

But the Association of Dating Agencies and Matchmakers said the merger will help make more singles aware of dating services and create a bigger market for the private sector. — CNA/ms