How to know that I have found the one?First thing first,Do not let your feeling role!Let the brain take over my feeling.I will decide after I have a deep consideration and thinking carefully. Not based on my feeling alone.I will know that he's the one if...I love him and I want to change NOTHING from him.Only if he has been himself in front of me. :)Nothing manipulated during the courtship.To accept him whatever he is.For example:When I know he is snoring and I still want to be with him, even though I will have difficulty to sleep.I will still love him and accept him with his snoring.Woman has tendency to change the one she loves.But man hopes the woman she loves never changes.Remember that man hardly changes. I will be disappointed if I wish he can change for me, for my sake.But that doesn't mean that he will never change.Always give space for each other to grow. :)He may not be the most perfect guy, but I can learn to love him perfectly.Few questions to ponder:what do you want him to change?Can I endure with his unchanged-habit for a lifetime?Is being together with him makes my life better? or just leads me to countless suffering?Let's say he's jobless and a lazy bump.Can you survive with love only? (read: Are you going to eat love?)It's not suggestible to decide based on love alone.Because love does change, and love between two human does not last.Relationship is all about commitment.When love does wither, commitment stays.
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