Wednesday, June 17, 2009

How can a lady get to know a guy without looking too easy?

Dear Dr Date

What advice would you give a woman who wants to get to know.. a good-looking, but very shy guy? How can a lady get to know him without looking too easy?

Yours, Debbie.

Dear Debbie,

How to seduce shy men? Great question, as there are plenty of shy men in Singapore.

If a woman sees her target at a bar or some other kind of social gathering, and she senses that he is too shy to approach women on his own, then it is common for her to make the first move.

What's required isn't anything drastic like walking over alone and chatting him up directly.

Instead, do this. Look at him, and the next time you meet eyes, maintain eye contact and smile broadly. Then look down so as not to intimidate him.

A few seconds later, throw him a short, darting glance. If he needs still more encouragement, look straight at him and flip your hair.

You can also get your guy friends to help you out by going over to him together and just being friendly and social. Have everyone introduce themselves and get to know each other. After that, you can pull him out for a more intimate conversation.

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