Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Looking for tenant

1)3mins walk from khatib mrt. one common room at $450, incl aircon n eletric. (but aircon only on it at nite during sleePing time)

2) no cooking.

3) Looking for female tenant

contact: angelcly@hotmail.com

The Five Basic Needs of a Woman/Man

The first basic need of women is Affection. This involves a variety of factors that changes over time. It changes through the seasons of a woman’s life. Security, comfort and approval.

The second is Conversation. God surely has given us the ability to communicate a tad more than He has given men. Although, we have been given this, there are also measures that we should take note of. Women, in general, have a much greater need for communication than men do. Studies show that women loved to talk about the same things a minimum of three times. They talk at a different level than men do. There are five levels of communication, these are: Cliche, Reporting Facts, Ideas and Opinions, Feelings and Emotions and Complete Trust and Truth. An average man would only go as far as Reporting Facts and that’s about it. Giving their ideas and opinion will be the first level they would take and they do it feeling it is a risk. As for women, to go as far as the fifth level is but very ordinary. The husband should take note that it is his responsibility to create the proper environment for conversation.

Women’s third basic need is Honesty and Openness.
It is interesting to note that most wives perceive their husbands as not telling the whole truth. The Bible emphasizes to always speak the truth. Ephesians 4:25 says to put away lying. It is habit forming to lie. It eventually destroys trust and we can track back to the cycle from the times couples are still dating.

The fourth is Financial Support. For obvious reasons, families grow and needs arise.

Women’s fifth basic need is Family Commitment.
A lot of women are often frustrated with the lack of commitment their husbands seem to have for the family. The problem with the silence of men began with Adam. Read Genesis 3:16

http://www.marriageandbeyond.com/2008/01/22/five-basic-needs-of-women/


The Five Basic Needs of a Man

A wife makes herself irresistible to her husband by learning to meet his five basic needs:

1. His needs for admiration and respect. She understands and appreciates his value and achievements more than anything else. She reminds him of his capabilities and helps him maintain his walk with God and also his self-confidence. She is proud of her husband, not out of duty, but as an expression of sincere admiration for the man she loves and with whom she has chosen to share her life. (Ephesians 22:23,33)

2. His need for sexual fulfillment. She becomes an excellent sexual partner to him. She studies her own response to recognize and understand what brings out the best in her, then she communicates this information to her husband, and together they learn to have a sexual relationship that both find repeatedly satisfying and enjoyable.
(Proverbs 5:15-29, Song of Solomon 4:9-5:1, I Cor 7:1-5, Hebrews 13:4)

3. His need for home support. She creates a home that offers him an atmosphere of peace and quiet and refuge. She manages the home and care of the children. The home is a place of rest and rejuvenation. Remember: the wife/mother is the emotional hub of the family. (Proverbs 9:13,19:13, 21:9,19, 25:24)

4. His need for her attractiveness. She is possessed of inner and outer beauty. She cultivates a Christ like spirit in her inner self. She keeps herself physically fit with diet and exercise, and she wears her hair, make-up, and clothes in a way that her husband finds attractive and tasteful. Her husband is pleased and proud of her in public, and also in private. (Song of Solomon 1:8-10, 2:2, 6:13, 7:9, I Peter 3:1-5)

5. His need for a life companion. She develops mutual interests with her husband. She discovers those activities her husband enjoys the most and seeks to become proficient in them. If she learns to enjoy them, she joins him in them. If she does not enjoy them, she encourages him to consider others that they can enjoy together. She becomes her husband's best friend so that he repeatedly associates her with the activities he enjoys most. (Song of Solomon 8:1-2,6)

http://www.inspiration4everyone.com/relationships/romantic_relationships/five_basic_needs_of_a_man.html

Monday, March 30, 2009

Differences between Wife & Girlfriend

Some people say:
Wife is a HARIMAU (Tiger) ...............

Girlfriend is HARI HARI MAHU

And some say:
Wife is like TV, Girlfriend is like Handphone (HP)

At home watch TV, Go out bring HP.

No money, sell TV. Got money change HP.

Sometimes enjoy TV but most of the time play with HP.

TV free for life but HP, if you don't pay,
the services will be terminated.


TV is big, bulky and most of the time old but HP
is cute, slim, curvy and very portable at any time.

Operational cost for TV is often acceptable but for HP is
high and often demanding.

Most Important, TV got remote but HP don't have.

Last but not least.......
TV do not have virus but HP have VIRUS......
Once get it, HABIS LAH.

So better choose TV lah

Beulah Easter Dinner Celebration & Gathering (For Single Christians only)

Come and celebrate Easter Sunday with many other like minded Christian singles in Singapore. Ice breakers like Human Bingo and Charade Challenge will be played. All will be divided into small groups with rotation to ensure everyone gets to know each other. Buffet Dinner and Cocktail will be served Date : 12 April (Sun) Time : 6pm-9.30pm Venue : Exclusive Preview Lounge on Level 6 of Cineleisure $22/pax (sign up individually) $20/pax (sign up in group of 2s) Prizes ** 10 movie tickets to be won ** 10 Make Over Vouchers to be won Payment: DBS Current 020-900318-3 SMS 97771818 for more info

Classification: Other types of events
Event Date & Time: 12 April 2009 6pm-9pm
Event Venue: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Cost: $22.00
Registration Details: Name/ Mobile/ Email/Church

Friday, March 27, 2009

Pulau Ubin Nature Walk‏

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Let us get together to enjoy the Beauty of Nature at Pulau Ubin. An Interesting Program Highlights awaiting you. Register Now to Avoid Disappointment!

Highlights:

Ubin National Parks HQ for general introduction of Ubin and a "photo hunt" game with prizes
Bukit Puaka (74m) - Best hilltop view in Singapore. Highest point on Ubin where one can survey the landscape all the way to Changi Airport, Pasir Ris, Shenton Way, Johor Bahru, Pulau Tekong and even Bintan on a clear day with the bluish waters of the quarry below.
Breezy Mamam "beach" overlooking Johor
Visit to the house of a villager to see his collection of unusual pets
Chek Jawa Boardwalk with observation tower and "fairy tale" colonial house. Tide at 12 noon is 0.6m so we won't be able to see the place at its best.
Stroll through rustic kampongs, abandoned rubber plantations, seaside, quarries and secondary jungles
Seaview lunch at main Ubin village near jetty

Mode of transport: Walk most of the way (return route by mini-vans optional if anyone is tired). Whole route is about 10km

Some creatures to look out for:
Hornbills, kingfishers, egrets, herons, sea eagles, wild boars, wild jungle fowls (kampong chickens), wild monkeys that are afraid of humans, amongst others. If very, very, very lucky, we may see otters, mousedeer, crocodiles, pangolin (ant-eaters), colugos, pythons, dugongs (sea cows), civet cats and leopard cats (these creatures normally turn up only at night)

Things to bring: Poncho (raincoat) or umbrella, walking shoes, caps/hats, insellect repellent, camera, water (can be purchased on the island), comfortable clothing and of course, money.

Date: 04th April 2009 (Saturday)
Meeting time/place: 09.00 a.m. at Changi Village Jetty
Estimated end of event: 2-3 p.m.
Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address, Gender, Current Church Attending and Contact Number to: Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com)
Maximum number: 20 persons (First come, First serve basis)

Tuesday, March 24, 2009

Badminton session (For Single Christian Only)-Confirmed Event

Badminton Session near Yishun mrt)

Those interested , please register your name, and the church u are attending
Event Date & Time: 29 Mar 2009 330pm -530pm
Event Venue: to be disclosed to signed up participants
Primary Organiser: Tina lstspore@yahoo.com

Monday, March 23, 2009

MM Lee: On single S'porean women


My daughter is one of them. What can I do?
When she was in her early 30s, I told her, never mind all this.
My wife and I used to tell her, what you want is a M, R, S - Mrs.
She didn't think it was funny. Now, she is 50-plus.
I'm getting old, I've got a pacemaker... We've got this big house, everything is looked after now, but what happens when we are no longer there?
Who's going to run this place? Who's going to make sure that the maids are doing the right thing and so on and so forth?
That's the price she will have to pay...
She says, I'll look after myself, but she has not been looking after herself all these years.
She went abroad for her studies... and her cooking was just to take the salmon and put it in the microwave and eat it up.
You can do it and then go to the canteen, but when you do that day after day...
It's a choice she has made and a choice that 35 per cent of our women are making.
Who am I to complain, except that society lives with the choices it makes?
This article was first published in The New Paper
by Ng Tze Yong

Friday, March 20, 2009

Join SMU PAW this Saturday - 21 Mar




Join SMU in celebrating Animal Day on 21st March (Saturday) at their SMU city campus along Stamford Road from 11am to 6pm.



Registration for competitions and goodie bags start from 12pm onwards. There will be dog show performances, Q&A session with a vet, photo-taking for you and your pet and many more fun activities. Join our Facebook event, http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/event.php?eid=53098402893 or email Leandra.c.2007@smu.edu.sg if you have any questions.



Show your support for SPCA by buying originally designed postcards of SPCA shelter dogs photographed by one of our PAW members. A set of 3 cost $3. Proceeds will be donated to the SPCA!


So, see you at Animal Day!!



Cheers,

SMU People for Animal Welfare (PAW)

Wednesday, March 18, 2009

FW: Christian Singles High Tea Seminar with Bill & Pam Farrel-29 Mar

Topic: Single Men are Like Waffles, Single Women are Like Spaghetti - How to have exciting, healthy, positive relationships in dating, at work with family and friends

Venue: Touch Centre
Date: 29 March (Sunday)
Cost: $10 per person (Bring a friend, each pay $5)Walk-in $15

See attached flyer for more details.

The speakers are bestselling authors Bill & Pam Farrel brought in by Campus Crusade to do Family and Marriage talks. I was extremely grateful that they have kindly agreed to speak to Singles even though they have a busy speaking schedule in Singapore. They are indeed keen to speak to Christian singles! But good things come with a price. They command a premium speaking fee yet I keep the cost affordable so people can come. The cafe has also helped by lowering their buffet price. Hence, numbers play an important part. It's actually a bargain to have a buffet and a pair of well known speakers for a chill-out Sunday afternoon.

I believe their years of experience and content will provide a dynamic session for Christian singles. And since it is a high tea, there will be also be ample opportunity for networking between singles.



God Bless,
Kenny Lew
Emmanuel Books & Gifts Pte Ltd
60 Stevens Road Singapore 257854
www.emmanuel-books.com
HP: 9693 7233

Tuesday, March 17, 2009

International buffet at just S$25 nett- 18 April (For Christian singles only)

Hi all

After last month's successful buffet dinner on 21st February with a great turnup of 59 persons I'm fully encouraged to do more of such makan fellowships. Let's feast again!

Please do register with your name, gender, handphone number and church you are currently attending.

Next event will be on : 18th April 2009, Saturday
Venue : 5 minutes walk from Parkway Parade, East
Cost : S$25 per person
Time : 6.30 pm to 10 pm
Closing date : 10th April 2009, Friday (payment to be made before closing date)
Participants who pay late or register late will have to pay S$30 per person

This event requires prepayment to secure your seat. All payments made will not be refunded.

Do remember to register early and make payments to avoid disappointment, let's have another round of good food and wonderful fellowship.. .

Please email to me at kylieyeo@singnet.com.sg

Blessings,
Kylie Yeo

Monday, March 16, 2009

Project Viva

Hi All,

Looking for CHINESE age 30 to 45 yrs old

2 hours focus group discussion with Incentive $80
Venue : Research office @ Toa Payoh Area

23rd March 2009, Monday 6.30PM
All have to be leisure Travelers
Either Working PMEB or Housewife
(PMEB - Professional, Manager, Executive, Business)

All should be willing to do a pre group assignment which involves making
a collage or putting real pictures in a scrap book that will be provide

Keen pls reply me with these details if you can make it on the stated date/time

Race : Chinese Only
Gender :
Name :
Age :
NRIC :
Contact :
Edu level :
Occupation :
Marital Status :
(S-Single / MNK - Married No Kid / MWK - Marrid with Kid)

Please email detail to Angeline angeline@kaf.com.sg

Thanks,
Angeline

Wednesday, March 11, 2009

Install a free bible on Java mobile phone

http://gobible.jolon.org/

Info from Mr. Raymond Lam...

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Badminton at Republic Polytechnic this Sunday 4-6pm (For Single Christians only)

With compliments from a church brother who has booked 3 Badminton courts at Republic Polytechnic this Sunday 4-6pm, I will like to invite anyone of you who are keen to join us. If you do not know how to get there, pls meet us 3.30pm sharp at Woodlands MRT control station. If you are late, pls find your own way there. Shuttle cocks will be provided. However, pls bring your own racket and water. If you drive, pls consider picking some of us up at Woodlands MRT and give us a ride to Republic Polytechnic.

We have also booked table tennis. Can anyone let me know if you can bring the bats and the ping pong balls pls ?

Pls reply to me via email directly (pls do not send to Franky) with yr name, church attending and hp no. if
you are coming. We will close once I gather enough people for the game and I will try to balance the ratio between bro and sis. To be fair to those who have committed themselves to come, I will appreciate you do not turn up if you have not signed up. If you have signed up, I will appreciate your attendance rain or shine. Your co-operation is much appreciated inorder for us to plan for future games.



Have a great week ahead !



Serving the Risen King

Tina Lee lstspore@yahoo.com

Monday, March 9, 2009

Beulah Dating@Sea 2009 (Beulah Dating@ sea 2009)

Dinner (For Single Christian Only)

Dear all,
The below dinner is strictly for Chrisitan only.

It will be full of fun and laughter.You may invite
your friends.Please email at: wilfredwong2222@ yahoo.com

* Event : Suntec City Thai Dinner
* Date : Saturday 14 Mar'09
* Time : 6.30-8pm
* Meet : Will advise to pay-up Participants
* Target Size: 30 pax
* Pricing/pax : $17 inclusive GST
* Table of 10, serve 7 dishes.

Interested participants, please reply:
------------ --------- --------- -----

Your Name :
Gender :
Contact no. :
Email address:
Friends (Any):
------------ --------- --------- -----

Best Regards,
Wilfred Wong
H/P#94884478

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

Looking for Khakis for March Korea Trip.

Hi all,

A sis is thinking of going to Korea for the cherry blossom in March, to be specific 22nd - 29th March ( 8 days) and maybe extention for 1-2 days to prayer mountain. She is thinking whether there might be any an interested sis participant with the same interest for this same timing, otherwise have to pay $500 more for single supplement.

For the bros, if there is pairs of 2s then we can form a group for this Korean holiday.

Interested, please email to eventfsc@hotmail.com

FOC movie screening of Fireproof

Hello

FYI Wesley Methodist Church,is having a movie screening of Fireproof
at Wesley Hall on 5 Fort Canning Rd Singapore 18 Mar 2009, 7pm to 10pm.

FOC on a first come first serve basis.

Avail to adults 18 yrs and abv.

Anyone interested can contact the person in charge Evangeline Leong
directly at 6837-8610

or I can try to see if I can get the the tickets if contact me early
at laueric70@yahoo.com .

cheers,
Eric

Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Looking for Accounts payable assistant

If you know of anyone looking for accounts job, please let me know. I'm looking for Accounts payable assistant...Chelsea.. angchelsea@hotmail.com

Monday, March 2, 2009

Badminton on 8/Mar (SUN) at Chong Pang CC 5.30-7.30pm (For Single Christian only)

Badminton on 8/Mar (SUN) at Chong Pang CC 5.30-7.30pm

Chong Pang CC is 5-10min walk from Yishun mrt. When you exit from Yishun mrt, just walk
in the direction opposite to Northpoint and you will come to HDB Blk 743, 741 and 740 and then you will see Yishun Christain Church. Chong Pang CC is diagonally opposite Yishun Christian Church. Pls see map below for details.

http://www.streetdirectory.com/asia_travel/travel/travel_id_10037/travel_site_126538/5/

If you are still lost, pls call me on my mobile. I will give you my mobile no. once you confirm you are coming.

regds

Tina lstspore@yahoo.com

Dinner Fellowship & Educational Talk on the use of CPF, Estate Planning and Wills by Wee Khin.(For Single Christians Only)

VENUE: CAFÉ DAILY BREAD, ACS BARKER ROAD, SPORTS COMPLEX LEVEL 3.
ALONG DUNEARN ROAD (Take a lift from the Carpark to Level 3)

Date: 28/3/09
NEAREST MRT : NEWTON (ABOUT 15 min WALK), EXIT TO BUKIT TIMAH ROAD
SBS: 66, 48, 66B, 170
TIBS: 67, 171, 700, 700A, 960
Free Parking for those who go by Car
Drop seokai@singlesfocusgroup.org a line if you are going.

Fun and Fellowship on Wheels‏

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Do you want to have a day of Fun and Fellowship on Wheels? Are you Game for some Fun and Excitement on Wheels? Come and Enjoy and Relax the Cool Breeze while travelling on Wheels.

We will kick off by having some Games. After which, we will Enjoy and Relax the Cool Breeze while travelling on Wheels. After the Fun and Excitement on Wheels, it is time to satisfy our hunger.

Last but not least, we will enjoy the nice and cool ambience near the Beach while having a drink and a nice chat.

Program Highlights:
3:15pm - Games
4:00pm - 6:00pm - Cycling / RollerBlading
6:30pm - Gather for Dinner
8:30pm - Drinks near the Beach

Date: Saturday 07 Mar 2009

Meeting Time: 3:00pm
Venue: East Coast Park McDonald's

Registration: Please Email your Name, Email Address, Gender, Current Church Attending and Contact Number to: Louis (espn_sp@hotmail.com)

*God creates an opportunity for us to meet. Let us treasure this opportunity to know each other further.

Awaiting for your favourable reply.

Have A Blessed Week Ahead.

God Bless,
Louis